Healing on many levels with love

Speak your truth, even if it doesn’t feel that great.

Get it out with love.

Approach it with love.

See with love.

Healing takes on many forms. It doesn’t have to be painful. Especially if you allow love to lead the way.

How do you do that?

Take your focus to your heart. Breathe into it, let that breath go into you through the heart and then exhale through your heart.

Do this for at least a minute.

Let go of any agenda or she said/he said stuff. Focus with all your heart on the issue or person from a place of loving kindness. Soon you will see and feel the old melt away. Then imagine yourself talking with them with no attachment to the old. With love filling and surrounding you both and the issue. Feel the love and see the person at the same time in your minds eye. Just feeling the love and compassion now filling any void left behind. Allow it to get as big as whatever the issue was. Sit with this for as long as you can. Do this as many times as you need before talking with them.

By filling you up first with love using the breath and intention, it helps begin the release process before you even have time to block it from going. Then assists to let go and heal anything else associated with whatever it was about. It may take time to get at it all, yet you have made it easier on yourself by going to love – first.

This is a simple practice, yet so profound. It is easy, sometimes difficult. We get so entrenched in the “I’m right, your wrong” stuff that we lose sight of what is really important. Peace. Simple and beautiful peace. When you get that peace, you will never want to let it go.

Give love a try. What do you really have to lose?

It is all good.

Till next time sunshines,

Big Ass Eternal LOVE to you all!!!

Kristin Joy

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There is a crystal for that

I have loved rocks of all kinds my whole life. Especially the shiny, sparkly ones. Ever since I skipped them across a lake as a kid, they have been in my life one way or another. What I didn’t know is the connection they provide. It is with a vast unseen world that exists all around us everyday. It is with the Earth. For me, they have been another tool in my proverbial cosmic, metaphysical toolbox. They, like a carpenter’s tools, can assist us in providing support that may have otherwise been overlooked on our journey. We can access deeper and higher vibrations within them. Utilize them to help us in countless ways. Maybe you’re feeling unfocused and needing a little extra boost in the confidence and concentration department. There is a crystal for that. Maybe you are feeling not as secure in some areas of life. Or too much mental chatter is going on. Grounding and balance are in order. There is a crystal for that. Maybe you have just begun a vision quest and want answers to the mysteries of life, needing something to work with the body in meditation to access a state of altered awareness. Stimulate that Third Eye, pineal gland, accessing intuition and spiritual visions beyond what you have known thus far. All of this gently guiding you to enjoy the journey by dispelling any illusions of separateness and opening you up to your own inner truth and inner guidance.

Needless to say, tapping into the crystals of the Earth and learning, in your own way to connect to them, is truly magical. The above examples are just a very small taste of what crystals can do. If you are just starting out and realizing that there is more to life than what we have been taught, not to mention you like rocks, crystals, etc. Then start learning about them. The best way is to notice what you are drawn to. Maybe it is all around you in your jewelry. For me, I loved amethyst. Purple. Love purple. So, one of my first crystals I ever bought was an amethyst. That and clear quartz. Found out that amethyst has a whole host of benefits and helps psychics to focus, ground the higher energies, protection from negative people and energies, not too mention the most important, opening the connection to the higher wisdom, guidance and vision. Connect with the higher consciousness, universal wisdom. It doesn’t have to take much, see if you can find a store near you and go check it out. Or a holistic fair. You can get them in so many places now. Even online. You can kinda make a wish, as in an intention. Then, when you least expect it, the right one will show up for you. An example of this, I was in need of help to speak and walk my own truth. Whatever that may be for me. I just happened to go to a local Crystal Store and while I was there, I felt drawn to this one stone. When I looked it up, it was like fireworks went off inside of me, like, YES – I found what I was looking for. This one is called Pietersite. Also can help with feeling more supported on your journey and removing blocks to the truth, any that you may have not worked through or faced.

Keep in mind, they don’t just show up overnight at times, it may take a little extra for the perfect one to appear. The right tool for the job.

Take care of them along the way. You may find you don’t need them as much and then all of a sudden, you do. There’s many different ways to keep them clear, so they can last a long time. Putting them in water, depending on the stone, smudging them with Sage, setting them out in a full moon and sun for a few days is my favorite. You can even sing to them or hum. With the intention for them to be cleared of any toxic energies. When you first get a crystal, it is always good to clear them first before using them. The books may have ideas on this. Of course, you can google as well. You will find your way to take care of them and utilize them to the fullest extent. Almost forgot to say, that some may disappear on you too. Or break. Not to worry, just know, they did their job. You never know, the one’s who disappeared, may come back. If they don’t, they went to a good home. The one’s that break, I usually return them to the Earth. You may want to keep yours. It is all up to you. You will know what to do.

There are many books on the subject. Do your research. Melody was the first that I came to know on crystal usage. She stopped updating hers. The information is still very relevant and insightful. Others have stepped up in most recent years. Judy Hall- The Crystal Bible is a beautiful book to start. Also, The Book of Stones – Robert Simmons and Naisha Ahsian with contributions by Hazel Raven is fabulous.

You will get to know what works, what resonates with you and what doesn’t. Getting started with crystals can be fun and enlightening. Opening you up to a new world. Bringing back a little of that child-like awe and wonder. Never know what surprises you will experience carrying these beauties with you. You can sleep with them, carry them in a pocket or put in your car. Have them with you when you are studying or painting or writing. Sometimes it is just fun to stare into them and let your imagination wander. Find that deeper connection to the natural world. Have fun and discover what works for you. After all, it is – Your journey.

Any questions or for more information, email me at kristinjoylife@gmail.com.

Till next time, happy crystal hunting!!!


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Happy Fall

It’s Fall and with that comes change. From colors to lifestyle, food, clothing and then some. With this is a Full Moon in the next couple days. Talk about a fabulous start to a beautiful new season. Create change, feel into what you need at this time. What changes would you like to make? Maybe you don’t know. That’s ok. Maybe you do know and you have for awhile. It’s just sometimes the fear that holds us in our tracks. Use this season change and full moon to face those fears and do whatever it is anyway. One step at a time. It isn’t a race. You don’t have to rush anything. Sit with this step for as long as you need to. Letting it flow. Listen to your heart. Go play, which loosens you up to hear and see things more clearly. Let go of the struggle. Breathe into it and release the stress or blocks. Pretty soon, you will wonder what the big deal was in the first place. Life and circumstances may not be perfect, yet you can make that change. Love yourself enough. Expand that perspective towards broader horizons. It’s all good. Now, go have fun! Donut and cider time in Michigan!!! Wooohoooooo!!!!!!!!!!!

Much love to all for a phenomenal fall!! Kristin’s going to play!

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Heart Led

If you ever wondered if following your heart was the right thing to do, yes it is.

Breathe and take time out to breathe into and through your heart.

Listen. Here you will find your truth.

Practice, practice, practice.

This is easy to do.

Much love,


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Lots going on


Its been awhile since my last post. I have been spending more time on me. Which when I first thought about it sounded awesome, then my brain kicked in with, how will you make money, what about your clients, and other fun stuff that was nothing more than a distraction from working on myself and the self-care I didn’t realize was lacking. It’s a drive from within that I have had to derail among other things. Working on resolving old beliefs and how to deal with letting go of a lot. Much from childhood takes its toll and we don’t even realize it. Sometimes unconsciously. Becoming aware has taken practice. Not to mention determination.

Again, this will be ongoing, posts will hopefully come more often. I am offering new services that can be done in-person and/or skype/zoom/phone.

Energy Healing Modalities

Energy Transfer Reset – a simple, yet powerful process to assist you in taking the soul back to the pure state that existed immediately after it was created by Source.

Illumination Process – A Shaman technique to clear blockages in the chakras, clearing the imprints of disease, etc in the Luminous Energy Field.

Both techniques helping to raise your frequencies, clear the old abuses, traumas, negativity from your Energy Field, Aura, clearing done especially from the past and past lives that you may have brought into this life.

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New Client Offer

$10 Off your first session for New Clients

Starting May 14th – May 31st, 2018.

Call or email to schedule your appointment at
(586) 291-6039 or kristinjoylife@gmail.com

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Changes are coming

Lots of timelines changing and people awakening at a rate I could not have dreamed of. Grateful and keep on keepin on.

Spirit keeps me guessing.

Just sitting here typing and looking out the window at a world of my construct.

How beautiful. Spring in bloom. The varying shades of green. The flowers of deep orange, golden yellow, purple hues and subtle whites are standing tall. A Robin just took off right above my window to say hi. I could feel their flight.

Appreciate what you see, hear, feel and what you can do. Focus on what is right.

It is cloudy and it would be so easy to focus on that. I choose not to.

Changes – over the coming months. How we see things is going to change. How we perceive. Things will not make sense. Every facet of life, every system is changing. Our bodies are changing. We are coming into the light. Focus on what you do want in life. Deep down and that takes some digging. Be patient. Love yourself. Breathe. It’s amazing what we think we know and then realize how much we don’t. Or even how we have limited ourselves. Don’t live there. In the limits. Do your best to allow your life to expand, your perception. Not take it seriously. If you find yourself saying – “Why did this happen to me?” Maybe ask – “What did I learn?” Get it this time. If not, you may repeat the lesson in another way. It is time to clean house. Seek assistance if you need to. Take care of yourself. Lots of self-care. You will get there.

Many blessings

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